11.27.2025 – stuff in the kitchen

stuff in The kitchen …
My kitchen, where treasure is …
heart will be also

Got up this morning to make a pie and I got to thinking.

I was using my rolling pin that I have had for years and I posted a photo it on facebook with the question, “Name something in my kitchen that hasn’t been washed in 35 years.”

What did I mean actually by saying ‘my kitchen’?

Did anyone in literature every write a better sentence on kitchen’s than EB White did in Charlotte’s Web when he wrote, “The kitchen table was set for breakfast, and the room smelled of coffee, bacon, damp plaster, and wood smoke from the stove.”

And I thought about kitchen’s in time past for myself.

My Mom lived in the same house in Grand Rapids, Michigan for over 50 years.

I can still say the phone number that started 363 (or if you are really old, EM3 when the city used ‘exchanges’).

There was a kitchen that was the heart and soul of a family.

As there were 11 kids in our family, the kitchen was huge.

Had a island with a 4 electric burners AND a metal surfaced prep counter that by itself was a big as most kitchen islands today.

They was a butcher block ‘sandwich’ counter at one end of this vast wrap around counter that turned into a breakfast area with kitchen stools on one side and then the dining room table that you could land a plane on.

Mom’s kitchen was quirky.

Mom had wooden bread box and the side that opened had a hair trigger.

If it slipped when you opened it, or sometimes all on its on, that side would fall fast and smack the counter with a band like a gun shot and made everyone jump.

The oven, somehow, gave off a AM Radio signal.

If you were in the car and someone was listening to a ball game on the radio, when you pulled into the garage, the radio would start giving off this low buzz buzz buzz and you know something was in the overn.

In her later years when she got a little forgetful, I would often drive over to see her and hear that sound and know that I should go in to turn the oven off for her.

Not hard to visualize Mom on an almost daily basis (Wednesday was prayer meeting so to give my a break that was night we went to McDonalds. Back then we ate in the car and two of the older boys would walk to the window to place the order. They would come back with a tray of drinks and hand to Mom who would then take a sip and say Coke Coke Root beer and pass them out. My brother Pete and I got out this by ordering the Orange Drink.)

She would take a break from the never ending laundry and walk into the kitchen and start frying up pans and pans of pork chops or stir and giant kettle of spaghetti sauce or peel the 10lbs of potatoes she would need for the evening meal.

In one corner of the kitchen was a tall under the counter cabinet.

It was in there that Mom kept the 10 different kinds of cereal we demanded.

Cheerios, Frosted Flakes, Sugar Crisp and Cap’n Crunch.

The Cap’n Crunch was for Dad who liked to sprinkle a handful on his vanilla ice cream.

Then over under the butcher block counter top was a giant two drawer cabinet known as the ‘cookie drawer’ where every kind of cracker, cookie and snack anyone ever heard of was kept.

As we were Dutch, there was always a box of Rusk.

An old friend of mine named Gordon Olson once said he never doubted the business acumen of the Dutch as there were able to sell boxes of stale bread by calling it rusk.

Almost more than the contents of the cookie drawer, what I remember was how the Grand kids eyes would go big whenever they discover Grandma’s Cookies.

They would stand there and almost cry as it was so hard to make a choice of ‘just one’.

Come Thanksgiving Day, Mom and the kitchen when into high gear and enough food to last Laura Ingalls Wilder’s family in their little house in the big woods through the entire winter.

Pots and pans and baking sheets piled up.

Food piled up.

Plates and glasses piled up.

That, folks, was a kitchen!

I realized that there is a big difference between ‘the kitchen’ where you live and ‘my kitchen’ which means more, ‘What’ not ‘Where’.

In the short story, “The Man Who Gave Up His Name”, Jim Harrison writes that the man in question had “In the trunk there was one suitcase, one box of books, and one box of assorted cooking equipment he could not bear to part with in his urge to travel light.”

One box of assorted cooking equipment he could not bear to part with.

That, for me, up what I mean when I say, My Kitchen.

I am happy to say that my box of cooking equipment includes utensils from my Mom’s kitchen.

We have lived in a dozen different homes since getting married and the The Kitchen always changes.

But in that kitchen, I will spread out the one box of assorted cooking equipment I could not bear to part with and once again, I am in my kitchen.

I am reminded of the Bible verse at Matthew 6:21, that says, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

For me, where my rolling pin in, there MY kitchen will be also.

11.25.2025 – was good night and day

was good night and day,
winter, summer, spring and fall,
dull days and bright days

Adapted from the passage:

Mr. Zuckerman took fine care of Wilbur all the rest of his days, and the pig was often visited by friends and admirers, for nobody ever forgot the year of his triumph and the miracle of the web.

Life in the barn was very good—night and day, winter and summer, spring and fall, dull days and bright days.

It was the best place to be, thought Wilbur, this warm delicious cellar, with the garrulous geese, the changing seasons, the heat of the sun, the passage of swallows, the nearness of rats, the sameness of sheep, the love of spiders, the smell of manure, and the glory of everything.

From the book, Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White (Harper and Row: New York, 1952).

Thinking of the seasons and wondering if this line of words may be the best ever at described what happens and the earth spins around the sun every 365 days.

Night and day, winter and summer, spring and fall, dull days and bright days.

The best place to be.

The glory of everything.

PS: See more Thurber at For Muggs and Rex.

10.23.2025 – I cried over things

I cried over things
knowing no beautiful things,
not one, not one … lasts

Adapted from:

I cried over beautiful things knowing no beautiful thing lasts.
The field of cornflower yellow is a scarf at the neck of the copper sunburned woman,
The mother of the year, the taker of seeds.
The northwest wind comes and the yellow is torn full of holes,
New beautiful things come in the first spit of snow on the northwest wind,
And the old things go, not one lasts.

Autumn by Carl Sandburg in Chicago Poems as published in The Complete Poems of Carl Sandburg, (Harcourt Brace and Company, New York, 1950).

It’s just a building, I know.

And I know it was MASSIVELY renovated under Mr. Truman.

But understand, without much structural attention since being turned over to John Adams and being burned by the Brits in 1812, that building was falling down.

According to wikipedia:

By late 1948, three main options were considered for replacement of the White House:

  • Demolish and rebuild the interior, keeping the exterior walls intact.
  • Demolish the building entirely and construct a new executive mansion.
  • Demolish the building entirely, salvage the exterior walls and rebuild them and a new interior.

Two of the options were DEMOLISH ENTIRELY.

And the decision was made to Demolish and rebuild the interior, keeping the exterior walls intact.

Also from Wikipedia, Historic preservation of buildings during this time was not as strict or defined as it became later. For its time, simply not demolishing the entire structure was deemed “preservation”. Winslow envisioned many of the interior items – from doors, trim, woodwork, and ornamental plaster – would be reused. Most were carefully dismantled, labelled, catalogued, and stored. Much of the paneling was reinstalled in the main public rooms, but other historic elements were simply copied to accommodate increasing cost and time constraints. Many of the original materials that were not deemed of significantly identifiable historic value, such as marble fireplace mantels, or not deemed to be readily reused, such as pipes, were sent to landfills.

So is it the building where Mrs. Adams hung her laundry up in to dry, where Lincoln walked and FDR rolled?

Well not really, but there is this scene in my memory that I read about where Carl Sandburg, visited FDR in what is now the Yellow Room but in that day, was FDR’s study.

Sandburg, according to the story, stood at a window, hand on the window frame, and said something like, “This is where Lincoln stood, looking south to Virginia.”

FDR asked, “How can you know?”

Sandburg responded, “… I can tell.”

That window, the window Mr. Lincoln looked through, the window that Sandburg rested his hand on, that’s still there.

Still there … for now.

10.5.2025 – she predicts either

she predicts either
a war or the end of the
world in October

I know how she feels.

So I had to add another “a” to make it work.

Thurber, depending on the time of day, might have forgiven me.

More Thurber here at formuggsandrex.com.

Reading some odd stuff online I came across in review of the book of Thurber Letters titled The Thurber Letters: The Wit, Wisdom and Surprising Life of James Thurber , edited by Harrison Kinney,

In a reviewer states, Thurber never warmed to William Shawn.

Shawn took over as Editor of the New Yorker when Harold Ross died.

I also recently came across the fact that after three years, Shawn dropped out of the University of Michigan and went to New York to find his fortune.

Thurber never graduated from Ohio State after being a student there for five years.

Both institutions wrestled with how to handle these famous but non-degree holding alums.

But did it also sprout the roots of a non-working relationship?

Some one’s PhD dissertation is waiting to be written.

9.25.2025 – wearing gloves because

wearing gloves because
I don’t want to leave any
fingerprints around

This image was first published in the New Yorker Magazine, 88 years ago today on September 25, 1937.

As I read over my last couple of months of Haiku and posts, I wonder and I worry; have I left too many fingerprints around?

You can peruse almost all of James Thurber’s published drawing online at my Thurber Page, For Muggs and Rex.

Been reading Brendan Gill’s, Here at the New Yorker and its unflattering take on James Thurber.

All I can say is echo EB White’s Obit which began with the line, I am one of the lucky ones; I knew him before blindness hit him, before fame hit him

As for these posts and thoughts, I am typing with gloves on.

I don’t want to leave any fingerprints.

On the other hand …

In the movie Casablanca, when the Germans enter Paris, Ilsa says, “Richard, if they find out your record. It won’t be safe for you here.”

Richard Blaine responds, “I’m on their blacklist already, their roll of honor.

Not a bad list to make I guess.