11.12.2025 – what is a cynic?

what is a cynic?
knows the price of everything
value of nothing

sentimentalist?
doesn’t know market price of
any single thing

Adapted from this exchange:

CECIL GRAHAM: What is a cynic? [Sitting on the back of the sofa.]

LORD DARLINGTON: A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.

CECIL GRAHAM: And a sentimentalist, my dear Darlington, is a man who sees an absurd value in everything, and doesn’t know the market price of any single thing.

In the Oscar Wilde play, Lady Windermere’s Fan, Act III, ed. Isobel Murray (New York: Dover Publications, 1997).

In the old TV show, Yes, Prime Minister, in a discussion on rescuing a British Citizen caught in a foreign country.

Sir Humphrey Appleby, the career government man tells the Prime Minister that, “Well, I understand that tomorrow the Foreign Secretary will deliver a strong note of protest.”

Prime Minister Jim Hacker replies that the response seems “Very heartless.”

To which Sir Humphrey replies, “It’s safer to be heartless than mindless. History is the triumph of the heartless over the mindless.”

Such thoughts as I drive east into the sun rising out of the Atlantic Ocean.

Where are we today?

I am reminded of the great Chicago chronicler Mike Royko who once said something like this about being a fan of the Chicago Cubs.

An optimist sees that the glass is half full.

A pessimist sees that the glass is half empty.

A Cub fan wonders, when does it tip over?

11.11.2025 – obscurely fallen

obscurely fallen
by death, something that we can
look upon with pride

Adapted from the poem, Ode in Memory of the American Volunteers Fallen for France.

Ay, it is fitting on this holiday,
Commemorative of our soldier dead,
When—with sweet flowers of our New England May
Hiding the lichened stones by fifty years made gray—
Their graves in every town are garlanded,
That pious tribute should be given too
To our intrepid few
Obscurely fallen here beyond their seas.
Those to preserve their country’s greatness died;
But by the death of these
Something that we can look upon with pride
Has been achieved, nor wholly unreplied
Can sneerers triumph in the charge they make
That from a war where Freedom was at stake
America withheld and, daunted, stood aside.

As published in Poems By Alan Seeger, (New York Charles Scribner’s Sons: New York ,1918).

In the Introduction to the book, Poems, one William Archer, a Scottish author, theatre critic, wrote, “He had hoped to have been in Paris on Decoration Day, May 30th, to read, before the statue of Lafayette and Washington, the “Ode in Memory of the American Volunteers Fallen for France,” which he had written at the request of a Committee of American residents; but his “permission” unfortunately did not arrive in time. Completed in two days, during which he was engaged in the hardest sort of labour in the trenches, this Ode is certainly the crown of the poet’s achievement. It is entirely admirable, entirely adequate to the historic occasion. If the war has produced a nobler utterance, it has not come my way.”

Margraten in The Netherlands, one of 14 permanent overseas military cemeteries set aside for America’s World War II dead that the U.S. government maintains in perpetuity.

Today in the New York Times, is the opinion piece, If Only More Americans Could See This Place by Jonathan Darmen.

It is an article about visiting a cemetery in Holland for US servicemen who died in Europe in World War 2.

Mr. Darmen writes, The American service members buried in the soil of Europe grew up in a country where many respectable politicians claimed America had no business preserving peace on the European continent or promoting freedom in the world. There was no NATO, no United Nations, no American-led global order.

When you stoop down on European soil to read an American soldier’s name on a grave, you see how policies sold as “America First” can lead to unthinkable suffering and loss.

Travel through Europe today and you’ll see the war-forged American-European partnership embedded everywhere — in gleaming embassies and in hulking military bases, in ubiquitous English-language ads and in the YouTube clips streaming on teenagers’ phones. But nowhere does the tie between the people on both sides of the Atlantic feel more intimate as in the World War II cemeteries.

In today’s Europe, the need for such a partner remains. At Margraten that August morning, I spoke with a Dutch woman who’d come to visit the cemetery with her young son. He was learning at school about “the problems in the world,” she explained. He’s a little bit nervous, she said, about what would happen “if the Russians come.” She gestured at the rows of graves all around her: “So it’s very important to see everything.”

My son got blown up in Afghanistan and is banged up in lots of other ways.

I have an Uncle who was blown up in Europe with a lot more visible wounds.

I have a Great Uncle who was shot in France.

My Great Grand Father had a confederate bullet in his chest from the day he was shot in Virginia in 1862 until the day he died, 50 years later.

I take my hat off to their service and to all veterans on this day.

On Veterans Day it it good to remember what Mr. Lincoln said at Gettysburg.

 It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced.

As Mr. Darmen writes: But in their beauty, ambition and scale, the cemeteries have also always sent a message to Europeans, a reminder of the costs Americans were willing to pay to ensure the cause of liberty in the world.

11.10.2025 – experience is

experience is
the name so many people
give to their mistakes

Adapted from the line, “Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes.” in the Oscar Wilde play, Lady Windermere’s Fan, Act III, ed. Isobel Murray (New York: Dover Publications, 1997).

Oh but where to start?

My recent experiences in books to read?

My recent experiences in things to eat?

My recent experiences in places to go?

Or do we cast a bigger net?

The recent experiences with Presidential elections?

Like I said, where to start.

Just for fun, read over the morning newspapers or watch the morning news and when you read or hear the word experience, say ‘mistakes’ in your head.

But …

In the play’s next lines, Mr. Wilde has another character say, referring to mistakes that, “One
shouldn’t commit any.”

To which Mr. Wilde has someone say in response, “Life would be very dull without them.”

11.9.2025 – we tend to house our

we tend to house our
products according to value
that we put on them

Yesterday my wife and I drove up to Beautiful Beaufort by the Sea, South Carolina for the Friends of the Beaufort County Library Book Sale.

It was held in the waterfront pavilion in downtown Beaufort.

I have been to and taken part in a lot of Friends of the Library book sales in my day but never one outdoors, along the coast, and in November.

I am at a time in my life when divesting of accumulated books is more on my mind than accumulating more physical books (As I buy more and more tablets to hold more and more e books – and for those who wag a finger, I also have a solar power tablet charger for when my Twilight Zone ‘Time enough at Last’ event happens) but then you just never know what a book sale might have and what I might find.

And what I found was a biography of the great …. MAX PERKINS!

Most likely you have never heard of him which is the way it should be.

He was a book editor and it was his job to remain anonymous while making an author’s writing better.

The author’s Mr. Perkins edited include F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ernest Hemingway and Thomas Wolfe.

I got through the first page, just the first page, where the author described the Charles Scribner and Son’s bookstore in New York City.

A bookstore that is no longer around, but it is still remembered as being in the top five of bookstores ever in the world.

Wikipedia writes: “The building opened by May 18, 1913, and became the seventh headquarters of Charles Scribner’s Sons. In addition to the bookstore and offices at 597 Fifth Avenue, Scribner’s had a building at 311–319 West 43rd Street for its printing press. The development of the 597 Fifth Avenue building was described by architectural writer Robert A. M. Stern in 1983 as “sure testimony to the rapid march of commerce to upper Fifth Avenue”. New York Times journalist David W. Dunlap, writing in 2012, said 597 Fifth Avenue was like “the Apple store of its day”. At opening, the bookstore contained shelves of books arranged along both the ground floor and the balconies.”

I went looking online for photographs of the store and came across the blog, Jeremiah’s
Vanishing New York
which on February 8, 2010, had a post titled, Scribner’s Bookstore, where the Jeremiah discusses the store and its contents.

The author wrote, It’s difficult to imagine anyone in New York today providing such an opulent setting in which to sell books. We tend to house our products according to the value we put on them.

I like that line as I think of the bookstores that are left to us today.

And then I thought about the book sale had just left.

In an open air pavilion.

In a park.

Along the waterfront, 2 miles from the Atlantic Ocean.

Such an opulent setting in which to sell books.

We do tend to house our products according to the value we put on them.

11.8.2025 – begin the hours of

begin the hours of
this day slow and make the day
seem to us less brief

O hushed October morning mild,
Thy leaves have ripened to the fall;
Tomorrow’s wind, if it be wild,
Should waste them all.
The crows above the forest call;
Tomorrow they may form and go.
O hushed October morning mild,
Begin the hours of this day slow.
Make the day seem to us less brief.
Hearts not averse to being beguiled,
Beguile us in the way you know.
Release one leaf at break of day;
At noon release another leaf;
One from our trees, one far away.
Retard the sun with gentle mist;
Enchant the land with amethyst.
Slow, slow!
For the grapes’ sake, if they were all,
Whose leaves already are burnt with frost,
Whose clustered fruit must else be lost—
For the grapes’ sake along the wall.

October by Robert Frost, The Poetry of Robert Frost: The Collected Poems, Complete and Unabridged, edited by Edward Connery Lathem (New York: Holt, 1969)

Fall in South Carolina

I came across the poem and saved it for use in October, but I woke up this morning, and it was November and I didn’t want to wait a year to use it.