1.6.2025 – most travel, lot of

most travel, lot of
expatriate life under
heading “trespassing”

There is also an existential, parasitical, rootless quality to being an expatriate, which can be dizzying:

You are both somebody and nobody, often merely a spectator.

I always felt in my bones that wherever I went, I was an alien.

That I could not presume or expect much hospitality, that I had nothing to offer except a willingness to listen, that wherever I was, I had no business there and had to justify my intrusion by writing about what I heard.

Most travel, and a lot of expatriate life, can be filed under the heading “Trespassing.”

From the article, “The Hard Reality American Expats Quickly Learn” by Paul Theroux in the New York Time, Jan. 5, 2025.

There is no there there and there is no way out of here.

1.5.2024 – don’t ever have it

don’t ever have it
as bad as you think – someone’s …
always got it worse

“We didn’t have a lot of money growing up,” the coach recalls. “When you’re young, you just know if you can have something or you can’t. Most of the time, you can’t.

“But then you see we’re giving so-and-so our old coats, or we’re giving them food, or this car has been in the family for years and we’re going to give it to another family because they had a house fire.

“As a kid, it doesn’t make sense, because these are people you don’t even know. But it taught me that you don’t ever have it as bad as you think you have it. Someone’s always got it worse. My mother taught me that. My mother and father both. Be thankful for what you got. And treat everyone equally.”

Detroit Lions Head Coach Dan Campbell as quoted in “Mitch Albom: Dan Campbell’s roots helped make him Detroit Lions savior.

… you don’t ever have it as bad as you think you have it.

Someone’s always got it worse.

My mother taught me that.

My mother and father both.

Be thankful for what you got.

And treat everyone equally.

I read this and I ask myself why not?

Yet I know there are a lot of folks, many who just got themselves elected to high office, who will read this and ask, “Why?”

1.4.2025 – no authority and

no authority and
an ideological
opposition … but

The quote, “I have zero authority on the subject and also an ideological opposition to this question, but yes” was in response to the question, “Good table manners?

Readers of this blog will remember that on Saturday Mornings, I enjoy a feature in the Guardian titled Blind Date where two people are selected to meet on a ‘blind date’ at some London Restuarant.

After the date, the two people get a questionnaire to fill out on their experience.

I really like this response.

I have zero authority on the subject and also an ideological opposition to this question, but yes.

Zero authority … on table manners?

Ideological opposition to … table manners?

Honestly, the way the world is today, I guess I thought maybe table manners was something we all might get together on.

But an ideological opposition?

In an era when dogs are allowed?

I wrote that before I even looked up the place where these two met.

Some restaurant called The Cavendish in London.

The online navigation lists:

Sunday Roast –

Dining …

and of course …

Dog Menu.

The menu also lists such American favorites as 24h slow cooked ox cheek and Orange and beetroot-cured salmon with tiger’s milk, herb oil and parsley glass cracker.

It will cost me some readers but I have an ideological opposition to dogs in public eateries.

As Mr. Wright might say, “There you are.”

1.3.2024 – nailed a pull shot while

nailed a pull shot while
fall over backwards, slog-swept
medium pace for six

Seems forever since I had a haiku based on cricket but the article, Rishabh Pant blast rocks Australia on 15-wicket day to keep India’s hopes alive, was too good to pass up.

This passage caught my eye:

Missing a reverse ramp third ball, he carried on with a series of airborne boundaries through midwicket, cover and down the ground. He nailed a pull shot while falling over backwards, slog-swept Webster’s medium pace for six, then did the same twice in a row off the far more express Starc, in the process passing 50 from 29 balls. The only faster half-century for India was – hard to believe, of course – by Pant.

Writing about cricket in Australian.

Is that a double blind?

1.2.2024 – boats nets lying off

boats nets lying off
off the sea-beach, quite still, boats
separate, row off

TWO boats with nets lying off the sea-beach, quite still,
Ten fishermen waiting—they discover a thick school of moss-
bonkers—they drop the join’d seine-ends in the water,
The boats separate and row off, each on its rounding course to
the beach, enclosing the mossbonkers,
The net is drawn in by a windlass by those who stop ashore,
Some of the fishermen lounge in their boats, others stand ankle-
deep in the water, pois’d on strong legs,
The boats partly drawn up, the water slapping against them,
Strew’d on the sand in heaps and windrows, well out from the
water, the green-back’d spotted mossbonkers.

A Paumanok Picture by Walt Whitman in Leaves of Grass (Boston, Thayer and Eldridge, 1860).

A Hilton Head Picture by Mike Hoffman